Do you ever feel that you are stuck in a rut? You seem to be doing the same thing over and over and getting no further in life. Have you ever felt that? I have. Ongoing failure can create a vicious cycle because the more you fail, the less you feel able to succeed. The less you feel able to succeed, the more you seem to drown in the ocean of fear and fear moves you away from your dreams and your true self.
In order to move forward, you must take the time necessary to look closely at your current choices, thoughts, and habits. This is important because self-knowledge helps us identify what is holding us back. Not knowing who we are and why we do the things we do limits our access to crucial information that can help us grow. For it is in the moment of self-discovery that you make your greatest movement forward.
So, what do you really want? Is it money, a beautiful home, the perfect job, love, balance, or a meaningful relationship? What is holding you back from getting what you really want? Is your obstacle fear, negativity, low self-esteem, procrastination, lack of choices, the need to please, stress, lack of time, or lack of money?
No matter where you’re at today, you have the power to consciously choose to see yourself in a new light and create the life of your dreams. And when you live the life you really want, the feeling of being stuck and stressed will be replaced with energy and motivation.
Here are three important steps to getting what you really want:
1. Identify what you WANT.
2. Figure out what is holding you BACK from getting what you want.
3. CREATE SOLUTIONS to overcome your obstacles.
I believe the biggest barrier to motivation is a lack of self-love. When you place harsh judgment on your own thoughts and actions, you minimize the importance of who you are, your life, and what you aspire to do with it. The truth is that everything you do matters. It matters what you think, feel, act, say, and do. You must believe you are doing what you are meant to do, and you must believe that you have the ability to do it.
Your future is not ahead of you; it’s trapped inside of you. Decide what steps you need to take, get motivated, and get going. Love yourself enough to get what you really want and live the life you were meant to live.
For those who want more from me; the best resource is a combination of my mentors’ messages on iLearningGlobal.tv followed by telephone coaching sessions between me and you. My mentors have created a couple of dozen presentations of less than ten minutes length that you can access from iLearningGlobal in High Definition on your computer. Here is the link to one of them: http://presentations.ilearningglobal.tv/